Hello, All!
I am in my final days with T L Ogre. His rages, abuses and antics escalated way out of control, especially the past couple of weeks. I will do my best to go into more depth in the next couple of days. My time is ultra short tonight and lots to get done while I have a few minutes of Internet at Walmart. Before this post is out, though, I will go ahead and identify myself.
June 18th, T L Ogre went into one of those rages, again, that sent me into a mini stroke. This time it was more than just screaming, yelling and raging in my face and ears .... he got physical, too. I had a mini stroke that night, worse than usual. It was a scary night!
The next morning, the old Ogre went down to the Sheriff's department and filed a vacate notice. I received it a few days later. I have no doubt that that was his purpose of sending me into a mini stroke, to weaken me drastically so that when he gave me an instant vacate notice, I wouldn't be able to move anything. I took the option to go to court in a week, which ended up being rescheduled once because he had problems with his leg. Geez, why couldn't I reschedule for when I wanted to due to a mini stroke?
I did end up having to go to ER because I wasn't recovering very fast and even now, am having some difficulty still with getting my speech back completely clearly. As I said, I can explain more when I get a longer window of time, but in the end, I was given two weeks to get my farm moved, which is down to about 10 days or less, now. I had finally gotten property, had some hang ups with it, but about two weeks ago I was finally able to drive up on the property and start moving stuff. It has become obvious to me that he doesn't want me to move my stuff and is trying to scam me out of everything I have to my name. I have less than two weeks to move all of my dogs, cats, chickens, goats, ducks, rabbits, build pens to move them into, (Oh, yes, and my hand is permanently damaged and still has lots of pain and always will, but more on that later), all of my farm equipment, supplies for about 5 small (micro) businesses so I can get some income going again (he just would not let me work and they all had to be packed away), all of my personal belonging, keepsakes, and so on and on and on. It took him two years with his strength, heavy duty pickup and long trailer to move my stuff there, now I am supposed to move it all out of there in two weeks with disabling health issues, which he inflicted many of. I have no money, no job (hope to get an income going soon after I get out), no retirement, NOTHING. I am moving a pick up load every day or two, but it isn't even making a dent and my body is already worn out. I need help! I am open to all ideas, suggestions and help offers.
T L Ogre is about to use the court system to scam me out of everything I have left in this world to my name. I got the idea that the court thinks they are "protecting me" with this ruling, but they just don't understand that losing all of that to the old Ogre will hurt me far more than anything he could do to me. :( :( :(
Hi! I am Anna Watts, originally from Muskogee, Oklahoma. I currently live in the Tahlequah area of Oklahoma and I am moving to the outskirts of Checotah, Oklahoma.
I am also known around the net as Granny Annie , Granny Annie's Farm over on Youtube, and many have known me for years as Tentfire. The blog that The Ogre and I had together is Two Farms One. What a contrast life is now to how it was in the beginning in that blog! You can also find me over on Facebook, here.
Thank you so much for your support. Stay tuned and I will do my best to update again soon. Prayers, positive thoughts, and, of course moving help of any kind, would be greatly appreciated. Blessings and hugs to you all!
Signed - Betty Sue .... aka .... Granny Annie
Friday, July 7, 2017
Wednesday, June 7, 2017
I Am Still Here
I am still here at the Ogre's... alive and breathing (not well, but that is just the season and irritations around his property).
I no longer have Internet, but I will try to catch you up soon. I did finally close on a piece of property, but the road half washed out from storms, I have no tin horn nor end of a driveway, it is nearly a 2-ft jump up onto the property and I can't drive on to the property, still. It has now been over a month since I closed, two months since I was allowed to take possession.
He is still a grumpy old, up and down (kitten to raging bull) monster. I now have a place to go ... I WANT OUT OF HERE! Still need much help with the moving stuff, lots of stuff, lots of heavy stuff.
May life treat you all well. I will give a full update just as soon as I can. Thank you so much for your care, concern and prayers. Blessings!
Signed - Betty Sue
I no longer have Internet, but I will try to catch you up soon. I did finally close on a piece of property, but the road half washed out from storms, I have no tin horn nor end of a driveway, it is nearly a 2-ft jump up onto the property and I can't drive on to the property, still. It has now been over a month since I closed, two months since I was allowed to take possession.
He is still a grumpy old, up and down (kitten to raging bull) monster. I now have a place to go ... I WANT OUT OF HERE! Still need much help with the moving stuff, lots of stuff, lots of heavy stuff.
May life treat you all well. I will give a full update just as soon as I can. Thank you so much for your care, concern and prayers. Blessings!
Signed - Betty Sue
Tuesday, April 18, 2017
Oh, My! A Scammer!?!
A few months ago, an odd thought crossed my mind. "Is T L Ogre a scammer? Is this obvious take-down cycle he has with women, also some kind of a scam? I mean, he has had so many wives and live-ins combined that I have lost count. He still has belongings here (trinkets, maybe?) from many of them. He even remembers what belongs to whom and likes to point it out. Really? Did I really want to know that a lot of the daily use items around here belonged to former lovers!? Even the dish soap had belonged to the last one (and we had been together about 5 years at that point).
He had a bottle of dish soap that he was using on when I got here. (sort of - dishes obviously hadn't been done since his daughter moved out - ewww!) When that bottle ran out, he pulled a bottle out from under the sink, handed it to me to use, making a point to tell me that it had belonged to his last one. That was over five years before! He had put it away when she left, got new dish soap to use, and saved that one for his next woman to use! As I continued to attempt to clean up the sink area, I found some soap in a glass jar and asked about it. It was the all natural dish soap I had made him two years prior! Geez! Who was he saving that one for?! He had whined back then about being out of dish soap and said he was too broke to get any, so I made him some out of a good soap base I had. All that time he still had the bottle of soap from his last ex. Then he did buy soap and saved mine, too. Grrrr..... Yep. It's gone. I used mine up, myself.
Okay, so I have really strayed off topic, sort of. I don't know about the other women that have been through here, but he has gotten me to spend countless hours in hard labor since I have been here, trimming up his trees and clearing large areas of his property. He would say he would build me this or that if I got it cleared, then .... nothing. He did that with section after section until I had large areas cleared and trimmed all over. Also, he insisted I work around here instead of going to work, said it would benefit us more if I stayed home and worked around the farm. I bandaged blisters, pushed through arthritis pain, migraines, etc., and got it done. The goats got fed well with all the cuttings, but the promises of what "we" would do with the cleared areas never came to light. He obviously just wanted all that cleared for his own use - cheap labor with benefits. How many women has he done this to? With so many of their belongings still here, I have to wonder, does he get women here and push them to marry him so that he is then joint owner of their belongings, but the land remains in his name? We had discussed wedding plans originally, in depth, then he eventually blew it off every time I tried to talk about it. A couple of months before our "official" break up, he pushed me hard to just go to the court house and officially tie the knot. He didn't want any kind of wedding nor anyone there with us. I know now that at that point, he had already planned breaking it off with me. Never mind that I had broken it off a couple of months before. This didn't make sense, unless it was part of his scam.
Looking back over his pattern with past women, plus seeing all the things still here from them, it make one start to wonder. The two wives that he still complains the most about leaving were the two that planned their "escape" in advance and had everything packed up and gone before he got home from work. They got away with all that they wanted. One was on a plane headed back for her country before he knew she was leaving! That really shocked him because of how hard it was to get her and her belongings here.
The thought that he may be pulling a scam had crossed my mind. It would appear that way, but I had dismissed it because, verbally, he was being very generous in all that he said I could take in our "division of property". He even offered to help move the big stuff with is truck and trailer. For the most part, dividing property seemed to be going well (except for the chickens and potatoes). THEN IT HIT! Wednesday morning, while in his extreme rage, he firmly declared that I no longer own anything! He said that my belongings had been here on his property for more than 30 days, so I no longer own ANYTHING! Nothing left to my name. EVERYTHING I moved here (and that is a lot) IS NOW HIS! This includes family heirlooms from several generations. He said it is now up to him as to what he keeps, what he destroys, what he sells, and what, if any, he might decide to "let" me take. SCAM! He hatefully insisted that I couldn't prove that any of my belongings were mine. He repeated that several times to drill it in. "You can't prove any of it is or was yours and you can't do anything about it!" he growled through clenched teeth in the most sarcastic, hate-filled tone he could muster.
Just how much of past wives/live-ins' belongings aren't still here because he sold them off? How many of his past ex's succumbed in fear for their life and left it all to get out safely due to the death threats and physical violence? I want to know! This scammer has to be stopped!
Once again, I apologize for any typos. I will proof read it when I get more Internet time.
Thanks for stopping in and have a beautiful day.
Signed, Betty Sue
He had a bottle of dish soap that he was using on when I got here. (sort of - dishes obviously hadn't been done since his daughter moved out - ewww!) When that bottle ran out, he pulled a bottle out from under the sink, handed it to me to use, making a point to tell me that it had belonged to his last one. That was over five years before! He had put it away when she left, got new dish soap to use, and saved that one for his next woman to use! As I continued to attempt to clean up the sink area, I found some soap in a glass jar and asked about it. It was the all natural dish soap I had made him two years prior! Geez! Who was he saving that one for?! He had whined back then about being out of dish soap and said he was too broke to get any, so I made him some out of a good soap base I had. All that time he still had the bottle of soap from his last ex. Then he did buy soap and saved mine, too. Grrrr..... Yep. It's gone. I used mine up, myself.
Okay, so I have really strayed off topic, sort of. I don't know about the other women that have been through here, but he has gotten me to spend countless hours in hard labor since I have been here, trimming up his trees and clearing large areas of his property. He would say he would build me this or that if I got it cleared, then .... nothing. He did that with section after section until I had large areas cleared and trimmed all over. Also, he insisted I work around here instead of going to work, said it would benefit us more if I stayed home and worked around the farm. I bandaged blisters, pushed through arthritis pain, migraines, etc., and got it done. The goats got fed well with all the cuttings, but the promises of what "we" would do with the cleared areas never came to light. He obviously just wanted all that cleared for his own use - cheap labor with benefits. How many women has he done this to? With so many of their belongings still here, I have to wonder, does he get women here and push them to marry him so that he is then joint owner of their belongings, but the land remains in his name? We had discussed wedding plans originally, in depth, then he eventually blew it off every time I tried to talk about it. A couple of months before our "official" break up, he pushed me hard to just go to the court house and officially tie the knot. He didn't want any kind of wedding nor anyone there with us. I know now that at that point, he had already planned breaking it off with me. Never mind that I had broken it off a couple of months before. This didn't make sense, unless it was part of his scam.
Looking back over his pattern with past women, plus seeing all the things still here from them, it make one start to wonder. The two wives that he still complains the most about leaving were the two that planned their "escape" in advance and had everything packed up and gone before he got home from work. They got away with all that they wanted. One was on a plane headed back for her country before he knew she was leaving! That really shocked him because of how hard it was to get her and her belongings here.
The thought that he may be pulling a scam had crossed my mind. It would appear that way, but I had dismissed it because, verbally, he was being very generous in all that he said I could take in our "division of property". He even offered to help move the big stuff with is truck and trailer. For the most part, dividing property seemed to be going well (except for the chickens and potatoes). THEN IT HIT! Wednesday morning, while in his extreme rage, he firmly declared that I no longer own anything! He said that my belongings had been here on his property for more than 30 days, so I no longer own ANYTHING! Nothing left to my name. EVERYTHING I moved here (and that is a lot) IS NOW HIS! This includes family heirlooms from several generations. He said it is now up to him as to what he keeps, what he destroys, what he sells, and what, if any, he might decide to "let" me take. SCAM! He hatefully insisted that I couldn't prove that any of my belongings were mine. He repeated that several times to drill it in. "You can't prove any of it is or was yours and you can't do anything about it!" he growled through clenched teeth in the most sarcastic, hate-filled tone he could muster.
SCAMMER!!! UGH!!!
Just how much of past wives/live-ins' belongings aren't still here because he sold them off? How many of his past ex's succumbed in fear for their life and left it all to get out safely due to the death threats and physical violence? I want to know! This scammer has to be stopped!
Once again, I apologize for any typos. I will proof read it when I get more Internet time.
Thanks for stopping in and have a beautiful day.
Signed, Betty Sue
Wednesday, April 12, 2017
Biggest Psychotic Rage Yet!
T L Ogre escalated at his worst, today! I only have a minute. He has banned me from using the computer at the house, and the Internet. He threatened to break my neck (came at me with his hands once and almost has ahold of my neck when I yelled that I would scream). He insisted that I needed my neck broken. A few minutes later he hugged (tightly) the gatepost and with hateful rage screamed that he was going to put a heavy chain on the gate to the dog pen/yard where I am 'living', lock it tightly, and watch me and the dogs slowly starve to death!
He TOTALLY lost it! He has been raging for about 3 days, again, and today's was the worst. The threats were numerous, all out of control and psychotic. He also threatened to kill all the dogs if they tried to protect me from him hurting me. Made it clear that if he decided to hurt me, I had to just take it if I wanted my dogs to live.
All signs point to him probably having killed the 5 week old baby goat that I am missing. He is INSANE!
I was able to sign a new contract with the property owner today, so I can take early possession of the property to start doing some clearing so I can move the trailer and stuff on it as soon as we close. I have to get moved, but I am terrified of leaving my stuff and babies long enough to move a load. He also threatened, today, to burn all of my belongings. I think I would literally see devil fire coming out of his hateful eyes today!
Sorry if there are typos. No time to proof read today.
Gotta go. Please pray for me and this situation, Love you all!
Signed - Betty Sue.
He TOTALLY lost it! He has been raging for about 3 days, again, and today's was the worst. The threats were numerous, all out of control and psychotic. He also threatened to kill all the dogs if they tried to protect me from him hurting me. Made it clear that if he decided to hurt me, I had to just take it if I wanted my dogs to live.
All signs point to him probably having killed the 5 week old baby goat that I am missing. He is INSANE!
I was able to sign a new contract with the property owner today, so I can take early possession of the property to start doing some clearing so I can move the trailer and stuff on it as soon as we close. I have to get moved, but I am terrified of leaving my stuff and babies long enough to move a load. He also threatened, today, to burn all of my belongings. I think I would literally see devil fire coming out of his hateful eyes today!
Sorry if there are typos. No time to proof read today.
Gotta go. Please pray for me and this situation, Love you all!
Signed - Betty Sue.
Wednesday, April 5, 2017
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